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THE POWER OF A COMPLIMENT

I never knew the power of a compliment till the moment made a large impact in my life. Have you ever been in a situation where you would wanna fly to the sky just by hearing "Good work girl" ???????????? Have you ever been in a situation where you are trying you are best to please people just for the sake of pleasing itself?????????? Have you ever been in a situation where all you want is help people and yet they cannot even take a moment to show that they are being helped or just express a gratitude?? Have you ever been in a situation where you are trying your best to that special someone that doesnot even recognize even a piece of what you are doing?? I am not trying t o insinuate that every situation needs a thank you or we should do hings expecting a thank you in return. NO. I am totally not saying that. What I am trying to say is that we should appreciate people and the things they do for us. Let us not wait for the day that they die for us to realize that we co...

THE ESSENCE OF LIVING 3.

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WHY IS OUR LIFE CYCLICAL? Make mistakes, learn from mistakes and doing the same mistakes again and again. We are the children of the same God, Yet some seem luckier than others, others seem blessed than others. Others complain more than others. some hope more than others , they keep hoping ,hoping and hoping. You will be surprised when you hear what their hopes are> 1.        The ones on the top should fall down and be like them. 2.        Be rich like Bill Gates. 3.        Be a politician 4.        Aladdin’s Gene should appear to them and cheer them with the choices of three wishes.( What will be your three wishes ,if you had such a chance?) 5.        Employment benefits 6.        Their terrible mothers and sisters in law should perish away 7.       ...

How to Win Friends and Influence People

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How to Win Friends and Influence People ( Guidelines from Dale Carnegie's " How to win friends and influence people" ) Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 1. Don't criticize, condemn or complain. 2. Give honest and sincere appreciation. 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. Six ways to make people like you 1. Become genuinely interested in other people. 2. Smile. 3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. 4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. 6. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely. Win people to your way of thinking 1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. 2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong." 3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. 4. Begin in a friendly way. 5. Get the other person saying ...

INTERVIEW QNS AND ANSWERS BY NCHOTA BEATUS

1. "If offered to you, how long do you plan to stay in this role?" Sample Answer(s) I approach every new job with a long-term view. I would like to think that I can make a positive contribution to XYZ Corp for the foreseeable future. Advice from the recruitment consultant Recruiting, hiring and training a new employee is an expensive process and represents a major investment by an employer. The interviewer wants to ensure that your goals are compatible with the firm's investment. 2. "What kind of salary are you seeking?" Sample Answer(s) Answer1: I would expect a salary which reflects the experience and qualifications that I bring to the role. What range do you have in mind? Answer 2: I've got a strong background in this industry and my skills are a perfect match for this role. I would expect my compensation to be at the upper end of the position's salary band. Can you tell me what that salary band is? Answer 3: Based on the information I have about the ...

365 DAILY SUCCESS QUOTES : JULY

365 DAILY SUCCESS QUOTES  Compiled by Steve Strahl July 7/1 "Success equals goals... all else is commentary." - Brian Tracy 7/2 "If you aren't making any mistakes, it's a sure sign you're playing it too safe." - John Maxwell 7/3 "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." - Bill Cosby 7/4 "The dictionary is the only place where success comes before work." - Arthur Brisbane 7/5 "Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven't planted." - David Bly 7/6 "As long as you are going to be thinking anyway, think big." - Donald Trump 7/7 "Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out." - Robert Collier 7/8 "No man is ever whipped until he quits - in his own mind." - Napoleon Hill 7/9 "Success is 20% skills and 80% strategy. You might know how to read, but more importantly, what's your plan...

MONEY MAKING SECRETS OF THE MIND POWER: The Science of a Positive Attitude

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The Science of a Positive Attitude by Eva Gregory A Native American elder once described his own inner struggles in this manner: “Inside of me there are two dogs. One of the dogs is mean and evil. The other dog is good. The mean dog fights all the time.” When asked which dog wins he reflected for a moment and replied,“The one I feed the most.” – George Bernard Shaw Quantum physicists have been playing with the notion that our thoughts and feelings have a direct influence on the physical world. Everything, they say, is connected through energy. You know already about the three Laws of Attraction, and how much your thoughts and feelings have to do with what you create in your life. Did you know that scientists are now agreeing with what we call the Laws of Attraction? They are! Here's a simplified explanation of this scientific phenomena we call the Law of Attraction: At the sub-atomic level, everything is always in motion. Time and space don’t exist as we know them. A butterfly m...

ACT LIKE A LADY AND THINK LIKE A MAN : Why Men Cheat?

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  This was certainly the story of one of my really good friends. His wife found out about his woman on the side, and she left him—went to her mother’s house for seven months and took his son with her. Dude was miserable. I mean, he was losing weight. We would go by to get him and say, “Let’s go out and have a good time,” and he would tell us, “Eh, I don’t feel like it.” We even offered to take him to see the woman he had on the side, in hopes that at least getting some from her would make him feel a little bit better, but he refused her, too. “I’m through with that,” he insisted. “I lost my marriage, my boy is gone—the people who mattered most to me are gone. And I want them back.” It took him a year and a half to get this woman back. I don’t know what’s going on behind their closed doors, but I’ll tell you one thing: she’s got the ideal husband now. Any married man can look at him and see how to get it done. But two things had to happen to him: first, he had to find out what was ...