If you’re like most people, vacationing is a welcome reprieve from
usual daily stresses. On vacation you may laugh more, sleep better, feel
more at ease, but why should we limit that to 10 days out of the year?
Nothing really changes on vacation except a shift in perspective and
that shift is something we can manifest at home on a regular basis
whenever we want. Here are eight easy steps to live and work like you’re
on vacation:
1. Change your commute.
The best part of vacationing is seeing new cities, landscapes, and
people. Taking in new information about our environment forces us to
become more aware. We stop hanging our heads in our phones and look up
to see what’s around the corner. Changing up your perspective can be as
easy as changing your commute to work. If you drive, take public
transit. If you take the subway, consider riding your bike. It could be
as easy as taking the long way around or stopping by a coffee shop that
is a little out of the way. A change in your commute doesn’t have to be
huge, but it will have a huge payoff.
2. Answer your email twice a day.
Many people stay connected to their email on vacation, but the ones who get the most rest are the ones who give it a rest. The
batching technique
was made famous by life hacker extraordinaire Tim Ferriss. It’s simple:
set up an auto-response that lets people know when you’ll be checking
your email throughout the day, preferably two times a day in the late
morning (after morning emails have come in) and early evening (at the
end of your work day), and a phone number where they can reach you if
it’s an emergency. Knowing that they won’t hear from you until those
specific times allows you to get more meaningful work done and to feel
less pressure to respond to everything immediately.
3. Go to new restaurants.
We all have our tried and true spots. They know our name, what we
like to order, that we want our dressing on the side. But on vacation
our palate is constantly changing. Eating out isn’t just about avoiding
doing the dishes later on, it’s about getting to know a new cuisine and
atmosphere. It makes eating more conscious and consciously chowing down
makes every bite more satisfying.
4. Assume nothing.
Remember when you were on vacation in a brand new culture and you
weren’t sure what was expected of you in restaurants, or on the road, or
even just walking down the street? Assuming nothing meant you were open
to new experiences. You saw the world through innocent eyes and that’s a
good thing. Taking away the assumption that you know all you need to
know leaves you open to being a student. Practice this in your
relationships. Assume you don’t know what your boss or spouse is going
to say next. Consider every moment a surprise and see just how much more
interesting your daily interactions can be.
5. When your to-do list is finished, stop.
A novel idea, right? We get so engrossed by productivity that turning
off our progress-oriented brains at the end of the day can be
difficult. So much so that we often make up meaningless tasks just so we
can keep working. When you prepare for vacation, you run down your list
of things to take care of and then you leave. You turn off your phone,
get on the plane, and just stop working. You can create the same kind of
daily rest by simply stopping once your list is complete. Sometimes,
the lists of things to do really will be endless, but knowing that you
can only get so much done in one day is your permission to stop. Clock
out every day.
6. Filter the same old problems through your vacation lens.
You know that as soon as you come back from vacation, the same old
issues at work or home will reappear. Just because the problems are
there doesn’t mean that you have to react in the same way. Consider the
most valuable thing you learned on vacation – maybe it was learning to
slow down, maybe it was recognizing that you could step away from your
team and they were just fine on their own, maybe it was that you feel
the best early in the morning. Whatever it was, use that lens to look at
your current everyday life. If you are feeling run down and uninspired,
maybe you need to get your most important work done first thing in the
morning because that’s when you had the most energy on vacation. Get
into your vacation mode to solve problems and the answers are usually
obvious.
7. Use your commute to consume.
Consume podcasts, audio books, music, radio. How many times do you
see this question on Facebook right before someone goes on vacation:
“Any good book recommendations for the beach?” Why should we save the
consumption of books and music for the times we’re out of town? When you
find yourself allowing more down time in your life, you’ll have the
space to fill it with inspiration. But even if your schedule is packed,
you can always use your commute to get inspired. Instead of planning for
or worrying about the day, take a book or a playlist to create the mood
you want. Choose to make your commute as pleasurable as possible.
8. Plan free time.
You didn’t just show up at your vacation destination, it took
planning. You carved out time and set aside some money, you researched
what there was to do and got your butt there. There is no difference
between vacation free time and everyday free time except that we plan
the former a lot more easily. Schedule in your plans to see a concert or
meet a friend for coffee or simply get in another half hour of reading.
If you’re not sure what you want to do each week, at the very least
block off time for just you. An hour of free time a day keeps the
exhaustion away. Don’t assume it will happen, make it happen.
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