ACT LIKE A LADY AND THINK LIKE A MAN : Why Men Cheat?

 
This was certainly the story of one of my really good friends.
His wife found out about his woman on the side, and she left
him—went to her mother’s house for seven months and took
his son with her. Dude was miserable. I mean, he was losing
weight. We would go by to get him and say, “Let’s go out and
have a good time,” and he would tell us, “Eh, I don’t feel like
it.” We even offered to take him to see the woman he had on
the side, in hopes that at least getting some from her would
make him feel a little bit better, but he refused her, too. “I’m
through with that,” he insisted. “I lost my marriage, my boy is
gone—the people who mattered most to me are gone. And I
want them back.”
It took him a year and a half to get this woman back. I don’t
know what’s going on behind their closed doors, but I’ll tell
you one thing: she’s got the ideal husband now. Any married
man can look at him and see how to get it done. But two things
had to happen to him: first, he had to find out what was important
to him, and what it was like to lose it. And second, he had
to come to the realization that he needed to restructure his
priorities: God first, then family. And you know what? He goes
home every night. He’s making money, he’s extremely happy,
and their family has nothing to worry about. And I heard his
wife say, “My new man is something else.”
They’ve been living in their happily ever after for thirty three
years now. He’s a helluva dude, man—and she’s a lucky
lady.

ACT LIKE A LADY AND THINK LIKE A MAN  BY STEVE HARVEY